RUH:
Dard ko hamdard bnaya hai humne
Har pal tumhe dur paya hai hmne
Mil jao hmari ruh mai tum
Tumhari ruh ko hmari ruh mai bsaya hai hmne.
1.INTRODUCTION: RUH, HAMDARD
Sometimes bad things keep us away from good things. In that situation we learn to grow with the things which are painful to us. If someone comes in our life as a hope, we always try to keep that person close to us because he is the only reason for our happiness.
Sometimes life is not so good for us. It gives us many bad things. Due to theses bad things, we are not able to cope with the situation and not able to stay happy.
Furthermore, the writer explains that I live my life in isolation and this isolation change into my habit. I already suffered a lot. I live my whole life without anyone. It gives me a sense of depression. This depressive feeling kills me inside. I live alone from long time, now this isolation enough painful to me.
Further, the writer says that it may be good to become self-sufficient but sometimes it is not good for our personal growth. This isolation keeps us away from social life. However, this distance never created by writer himself. This isolation and painful situation given by this society.
The writer accepts this loneliness as their part of life. However, this isolation gives him strength and potential to create new things. So, the writer uses this isolation as a motivation for his professional growth.
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2. The main points of RUH, HUMDARD
1.Loneliness and life:( Ruh Hamdard)
we are trying to control the circumstances and if circumstances are not in our control, then we become Sad and try to live alone. Sometimes it become our habit and this habit change into our nature.
The relationship between us and life is codependent. our everything’s ordered according to life. sometimes we think that our relationship with life is not so deep, but it is really deep as we cannot even imagine.
2.Loneliness and depression:(Ruh Hamdard)
In this heading the writer wants to clear that when the loved one of writer went from his life then his life totally become empty. After this he afraid to live alone. After that he wants someone in his life because this isolation gives him depressive kind of feeling.
3.Pain become fellow sufferer:
In this heading the writer says that I made my pain my fellow sufferer. I know nobody here to give me company. I know only my pain accompany me during my suffering. This is the only reason I love my pain. Because it is the only reason that the writer loves his pain more than his comfort .
furthermore, the writer says that I really appreciate my pain because it is the only supporter of me.Then the writer says I already in isolation because in that situation I am closer to myself. Further the writer says that sometimes situation is not in my favor which causes restlessness. But I enjoy the way which help me to become a good person.
4.Soul to soul connection.
The writer says to his loved one that I always searching for you, but you never look me back. My soul always craving for you. You always ignore me like I am nothing for you. Sometimes, I am feeling like I am not existing for you. I am not able to understand why you are behaving like that.
You leave me in cold without explaining me anything. This is not a positive attitude towards me.This kind of your behavior totally break me inside. Your behavior gives me a sense of worthless. Afterall this I am still waiting for you. My soul always feels your presence. Now I become enough strong to tolerate your behaviour.But I learn to keep patience.
5.Soul craving:
In this heading that the writer says that I love you so much without any condition. This soul connection always triggers me to do something for you, but you always leave me alone. You blocked me everywhere without explanation. This blockage drives me to live alone. I already accept the situation.
6.Love and Ego
In this heading the writer says that I don’t know why your ego become bigger than me.It is really shocking for me that you choose yourself. Nowadays I am not your priority anymore. You already took your personal space. You make yourself priority. I am just like an option for you. I think your ego never allowed you to accept me.Undoubtedly your status is bigger than me.
But how can it bigger than us. Our soul connection never been complete without each other. According to me we should leave our ego side and keep this relationship continue. Because we can earn money, but we should avoid losing that person whom we love so much. Ego is nothing. Ego is an illusion who separate both parties.
conclusion:
In conclusion author refers to his special person that I already made my pain my friend, I never find you near to me, you always try to live far away from me.
I don’t why I am feeling empty without you please come in my life to make it beautiful. Love is not a part of life alone; it is a foundation of any relationship. Hence, I think we don’t waste our time to be confused. Further, we should believe in ourselves and try to come together forever.
Love is the foundation of everything. Sometimes misunderstanding change someone attitude towards each other’s.They blame each other without knowing the situation. This fake illusion change their mindset and they decide to leave each other.
Furthermore, the writer says that accept one another without judgement.Explore yourself in front of your loved one. If you truly love each other this is your responsibility to assure them that you love him/her very much.
Now complete your soul purpose with one another without delayed. God send you here to complete your life path with your soul partner.