Dard:
Hr jkhm dikhayi nhi deta
hr katil dushman nhi hota
kuch choate milti hai apno se
hr mout ki vjh dard nhi hota.
Introduction: Dard
In this poetry the writer explains about the pain which he received from his loved ones. according to writer sometimes we love our family and friends deeply, but they don’t care about this.They give us pain and hurt us without knowing the exact things because they take us guaranteed.
However, not every pain given by others, some pain and problems given by the people who are our dears. According to writer some wounds are enough deep which are not seen externally. Some people die because of the wound given by their own people. These wounds are enough deep to take the life of that person who has suffered.
1.Not every murderer is your enemy: Dard
According to writer not every murderer is your enemy, some pain and problems given by your own people. These people who gave us difficult time are very close to our heart. Their behavior and attitude always hurt us. When the people who are dears to us, make us worthless then it really hurt us at a deep level.
Sometimes this emotional pain is enough deep and burn us from inside which leads to various physical and mental health problems. In that situation person tired from this pain and lose hope to live. He doesn’t have anything which can give him hope. His mental health totally goes into a wrong direction.
Further the writer explains, in that worst condition he needs someone who understand him without any judgment. But unfortunately, no one there who can understand him. At last, he loses hope and think it is better to end this life.
2.Not every wound is visible: Dard
In this poetry the writer says that a person has many wounds. Some of them visible and others are not visible. These wounds can be very deep and invade a person at a deeper level. But this is not necessary that all the wounds are physical and appear to everyone. Some wounds are internal and don’t visible. However, some wounds are on soul level and enough capable to destroy to anyone.
The wounds which are on soul level are extremely painful and cause deep invasion leads to mental, emotional, physical and spiritual problems. Due to these problems the person is not able to survive and give up to life. He wants to live a life but not able to handle the situation. These are wounds which are gifted by their own people.
3.Some pains are given by our special people: Dard
In this poetry the writer says that some pains are given by our special and dears persons. When our special people don’t give us importance and make us worthless then this is most crucial pain ever. This pain gives us emotional trauma and many mental health issues.
These all-mental health issues changed into mental health diseases. However, some people can handle these traumas by using different defense mechanism, but some are unable to do this.
When we give someone importance and care, but they do not respect it and think that we are worthless then it can cause an inferiority complex. When a person goes into an inferiority complex then it leads to self-esteem issues in that particular person.
4.Not every physical pain is the reason of death:
According to writer a physical pain may be the reason of death in some cases. But not every death needs physical pain. Some deaths occur because of mental and emotional pain. Sometimes a person does not able to handle emotional pain and this emotional pain cause a deep mental health problem in that person. When a person is in a difficult situation then he needs someone who can talk to him and understand him but who cares, nobody presents there to help him.
When a person tired from various emotional issues then he wants someone help him to beat these problems. Although people do not help him, they just make fun of him without knowing his situations. According to me if you are not making someone happy then it is better to stay away from his life.
Conclusion:
In this poetry the writer says that everybody wants a life which is stress- free and happy. However, this is possible when we will understand one another. If a person in that situation which can kill him then it is also a responsibility of society to protect him.
When we give someone unnecessary pain then we should put ourselves in that situation and think how much pain we are giving to a person. May be that person not able to handle that pain and this pain took him to death. Further the writer says that when a person decides to do suicide then not only one-person responsible to his death, but there are also thousands of people and reasons which pushes him to do that.
As a human being we should take some responsibility like this then we can save many people. However, this is not possible only if we wish for it, we should work for it.
Comments:
In this poetry author says that many youngsters suffered from the inferiority complex which is given by their loves one. As a near and dear this is also the responsibility of friends and family to communicate with that person who has suffered from these problems.
As a writer I would like to add some things in the comments that this poetry made only for entertainment purpose, nothing is related to any character and person.
However, this poetry contains some message for our society that we should take care of the person who is sensitive and emotional. We don’t even know which thing hurts him. As a human being this is also the responsibility of everybody to make a healthy environment at this earth.
I would like to advise that we should respect others as they are. If we accept another person in his real self, then no one feel stress and inferiority complex.
we should teach our child about self-love and acceptance and if they accept them, then no one can provoke them to do suicide.